Calvin; dang man, I feel for you... that's a lot at once to deal with... I hope things get better for you.

My Uncle was Veryl Myers he was 80 and a Veteran, known as "Curly" his nickname from childhood.
Thanks again everyone it is nice to be thought of and remembering our friends of friends.
I found this great poem that I sent to my cousins;
"Death is natural. Nothing natural can be detrimental.
Death is rest. Rest is strength in disguise for a further adventure. "
" At the present state of human evolution, to conquer Death may be an impossibility.
But to overcome the fear of death is not only practicability, but inevitability."
- Sri Chinmoy