i dont know what to do

[jbohall001]

Thats sounds like a plan to me buddy. Any good woman should love go kart racing! Just make it all about you and her! Ill pray for you some good graces! Lol I just realized you were from Geogia. My families vacation house is in Jackson, probably about 70 miles from you!

[forrestbump]

My Heart goes out to your Kids, Your Wife and You Buddy. Been through it TWICE myself! Talking IS the best medicine. I was too proud to do so and lost it all. Time will heal all the hurtful things said. I do agree that staying together for the Kids sake is NOT the best solution. It took me three years to get to the point where my Ex & I can now talk and our Kids are happier for it. I miss living with them but things are better now. I'm not saying end it because every couple is different so if you CAN work things out DO SO. It's lonely out there. Your Family is now in my prayers.

[69rangerf100]

thanks i appreciate the prayers. things are starting to get better slowly. i am hoping that friday night helps alot just being the two of us

[sargentrs]

Not trying to be nosy but how'd it go Friday night? I'm following your situation in hopes it'll give me some insight with mine. Thanks!

[69rangerf100]

it went good we went to dinner played a round of putt putt golf then went to see a movie. the night was going great until we got home and stupid thing was i havd my meds in my work bag and she got a little bent out of shape. but things are much better between us now thanks for checking in

[69rangerf100]

well the sh*t hit the fan again tonight. this time she decided to throw her laptop at me and broke the rom drive on it

[bobsgarage]

Sorry things have digressed since date night. Sounds like your both under alot of stress right now. It is probably hard for her to have a vent for her frustation, and as you are and have been the closest one, you feel the brunt of it. Sounds as tho she made need sometime also without the kids. If she was always working and now has become a stay at home mom. It could be really frustating for her. As your job allows you a vent, she no longer has that at home. Have you tried taking the kids with you and give her some alone time or allow her sometime without, just to go get her hair done. I have learned that there are times when she just needs time to go and feel girly or just time alone, without having to ( care for the kids ) , so to speak. So what was the new disagreement about? Or was she just frustated?

[69rangerf100]

well last night we decided that we need some outside help so we are going to start going to marriage counseling

[sargentrs]

Not a bad idea. Got a buddy going through it too. Just keep an open mind and try to keep an open mind. The hard part is listening. If the counselor is any good, and keeps control, it can be a worthwhile experience.